Red flag in dating
Then, when he has no purpose left for you, he just throws you away. You’re so much worse off than when you first started dating. Something that will give you the strength to pick up the pieces of your shattered psyche and lost soul.
It’s as if you cannot remember the person you were before the relationship began. These are the feelings so many women go through on a daily basis.
Someone he was in a relationship with twenty years ago should not react to a ” hi, how have you been? Maybe they wouldn’t bother to respond, but to outright block is too extreme to ignore.
Most of us will have at least one, if not a few, significant relationships during our lifetime.
This feeling of relief in contrast to the low of the anxiety and constant tension can be mistaken for happiness and is what makes you good by comparison. If you aren’t putting forth a good vibe and honest effort into a relationship (or even dating) then you aren’t going to get good vibes and honest results in return.
Try clearing your mind of suspicion first, bring yourself to a “happy place”, and then try again.
But how can you ever hope to know another individual if you don’t know yourself first?
How can you address another’s needs and desires if you're disconnected from your own?
The thing is, a lot of women are conditioned from a young age to accept these red flags as normal. I don’t care if he lies about his age, or if he conveniently forgets to tell you important things (like a business meeting…).and sure enough, he winds up being disrespectful, rude or even a downright womanizer? He starts arguments and fights, and not just with you.If you let yourself stick around that negativity it will affect your own vibe, bringing your own mood down and leaving you feeling drained and unhappy. If you have long-time friends voicing “red flags” about a guy, listen to them. Sometimes it’s really hard to see something negative going on in your relationship when your own emotions are caught up in it.Have you noticed any red flags I didn’t mention here?Have personal experience with anything I mentioned above?